In Luke 11 Jesus’ disciples said – “Lord, teach us to pray” and he taught them a prayer displayed in its full length in Matthew 6. My recently deceased mother taught me this prayer as a young child and I am indebted to her for it. I’ve been meditating a lot on the prayer this year and I want to share with you some thoughts that I hope will be encouraging.
This prayer has to do with how we live as followers of Christ in this life – on his great co-mission: “As the Father sent me so I am sending you” (John 20). Jesus introduces it as follows:
Matthew 6:6 But when you pray, go into your private room, shut your door, and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.
There are rewards for prayer – not from people but from God. One reward is that we will be changed so that God can also influence those around us. They will be able to better respond to God as we know him better. God won’t change them or change our circumstances without first changing us. He is more interested in our character than our comfort. Someone told me recently that she was struggling in her marriage and felt God say to her: “Don’t complain – pray and there will be change.” Things began to improve. She didn’t realise until years later that God was talking about changing her – not her husband! God’s reward is also greater responsibility in this life and the next. Jesus told a parable about how those who are faithful in this age are given responsibility over cities in the age to come. Our character is formed in this age. I don’t believe that our character suddenly changes upon our death – it’s just that we don’t have our marred “flesh” tripping us up any more. I like to think of prayer as if I am standing on a boat pulling into a wharf. I have thrown the rope over a mooring and I'm pulling the boat toward it. It appears from my perspective that I am moving the wharf!
7 When you pray, don't babble like the idolaters, since they imagine they'll be heard for their many words. 8 Don't be like them, because your Father knows the things you need before you ask Him.
God is not an idol – he is a Father. It’s not words that matter so much as sharing his heart. The apostle Paul in the book of Romans describes prayer “in the Spirit” as the Spirit helping us pray with “groanings too deep for words”. If we have words use them – but prayer is more about getting close to the heart of the Father and having a deep connection with his ways. The greatest joy of a parent is not that their children just obey them, but when the children begin to share the parents' deeply held values as their own. So in this prayer Jesus gives us not so much words but themes. Prayer is not about magic words or a secret success formula, but themes that we centre ourselves upon. So he starts:
9 "Therefore, you should pray like this:
Our Father in heaven,
Your name be honored as holy.
Notice how God comes first in the prayer – not us. God is the centre – not our needs. We revolve around him – not him around us. Paul says in the book of Ephesians that God’s ultimate purpose is the “summing up of all things in Christ in the heaven and on earth”. Then after that Jesus hands it all back to the Father. Important as it is that our sin and pain is dealt with this is not where Jesus starts the prayer, but on the honour of the Father. He is Father of creation, the originator of all that exists. Why is he in heaven and separated from us? At creation he walked with humankind but his name was not honoured as holy. His honour and integrity were called into question by the serpent and we know the result – separation not just of humankind from God but heaven and earth became clearly separated – dimensioned off - with the connection points now only through God’s initiation (the temple, angelic vsitations, visions, God's Law and finally the Word of God made flesh - Jesus). There is coming a day when heaven and earth will again be joined as one when all that has destroyed the world is itself destroyed at Jesus’ return. Until that time we are called to be those who honour God’s name and to make his character and will known through our actions and lifestyle so that others will honour him also.
10 Your kingdom come.
Your will be done
on earth as it is in heaven.
God is firstly Father, but he is also described as a King with a kingdom. He is a kind king - not like the ancient kings who dominated and enslaved - but as one who encourages and gives us many chances and opportunities to be reconciled with him. He is the King who sent his own Son so that we may be reconciled to the Father. He didn’t leave us to go down with this sinking ship but made a way of escape. His will is that none should perish but all should come to the knowledge of that truth. He provides a way of escape from destruction through faith in the life, death and resurrection of Jesus. His will is unchallenged in the unseen dimension called heaven, but here it is challenged because we are created as free agents. There is no opportunity for a relationship with a robot or a computer but only with a truly free person. As we acknowledge him as King and pray his Kingdom come we are submitting to him and making him Lord – the very thing that was lost at the fall and caused all the trouble we see. As Jesus went about healing and doing good works he previewed the Kingdom that will be introduced in it’s fullness when he returns – no sickness, no dying, no poverty, no injustice, no broken relationships, no bitterness, no starving, no abused and no oppressed. We are called also to be previews of that Kingdom. As the Father sent Jesus so he sends us – how?
11 Give us today our daily bread.
If we are to do his will and be his co-workers we need help! We are made from the dust - fallen and marred. Even as God’s children and forgiven we still live in a body that is subject to sickness, sin and death. When we receive our redeemed bodies then death the final enemy will be defeated. In the meantime God gives us the down-payment of our full inheritance - the Holy Spirit – God not just with us but his presence living inside us. The theme of ‘daily bread’ hints back to the Exodus. The ‘children of Israel’ were in the wilderness and every day God gave them enough manna – bread from heaven - for the day. The lesson was that they would learn that “man shall not live by bread alone but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God”. God will provide our daily food, but much more so he will provide us with his Word and his Spirit. Again in Luke 11:13 Jesus says “if you then being evil know how to give good gifts to your children how much more will your heavenly father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him?” There are many passages that tell us we are also to be filled with – “the knowledge of His will.” We are to grow “in the knowledge of God so we you be filled with all the fullness of God.” By the Spirit God writes his laws on our hearts. We are to pray that we will not just have our material needs met but that we will be filled with the knowledge of his will and have the strength and love to live it.
12 And forgive us our debts,
as we also have forgiven our debtors.
Followers of Christ are not sinless! While we still live in this body we will stumble and fall – but when we do sin the apostle John tells us that we have “an advocate with the Father”. The writer of the letter to the Hebrews says that we aren’t to ever forget that we come to the “throne of grace” through the blood of Christ – through his righteousness not our own – where we may “find grace to help in time of need”. We are to never cast away that confidence to come. This is not using his mercy as an excuse to continue in sin but doing our best by his grace while at the same time being realistic. We are a work in progress -damaged goods - earthen vessels - jars of clay. But we are called to carry his glory in the earth as his co-workers. Then he gets the glory not us! It’s okay for people see our humanity - but they see the glory shining through our cracks as we submit to him and walk by his Spirit. Psalm 103 13-14 says “As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him; for he knows how we are formed, he remembers that we are dust.” Forgiveness is also the key force that we have in our power to liberate others from slavery to Satan and sin. The spiritual forces - “principalities and powers” - that are defacto rulers of this world hold their power through a web of bitterness, anger, resentment, unforgiveness and desire for vengeance. When we practice these things we feed the power system which holds the world in such disarray. On the cross when Jesus prayed: “Father forgive them they know not what they are doing…” he sent a shockwave through the kingdom of darkness that will ultimately see it completely destroyed. Stephen did the same at the hands of his murderers. Forgiveness undoes people’s worldviews. Most worldviews are based on “you owe me” – you owe me love, you owe me money, you owe me loyalty, you owe me respect – and taking vengeance on those who don’t. When we forgive we deeply challenge that. The people that changed the world most significantly for good in the in the 20th century all understood this, and all got it from Jesus' teaching here in Matthew.
For example Mother Teresa said:
"People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway.
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway."
Martin Luther King Jr said:
"Returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars... Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that."
Ghandi said :
“An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.”
Desmond Tutu said:
"Forgiving is not forgetting; it’s actually remembering--remembering and not using your right to hit back. It’s a second chance for a new beginning. And the remembering part is particularly important. Especially if you don’t want to repeat what happened."
13 And do not bring us into temptation,
but deliver us from the evil one.
If we as God’s people are honouring his name; being filled with his Spirit; coming before him with confidence and shaking the powers of darkness through forgiveness we will be formidable forces for good in the world and for bringing people into healing and reconciliation with the Father. This will not go unchallenged by the forces trying to maintain their power-base against the invasion of God’s Kingdom. Our own “flesh" is still unredeemed and can let us down badly too. So we have the world systems, our own flesh and the evil forces of the age arrayed against us. So we humbly ask the Father for help and deliverance from their power. We live in hostile territory taking our life into – not our own hands – but Gods hands. In this world we shall have tribulation but Jesus says "...be of good cheer, I have overcome the world". We are promised suffering as followers of Christ – suffering from within and without. But he has promised never to leave us or forsake us. Not even death can separate us from the love of God so we are not to fear even those who can kill the body. Our lives are already hidden with Christ in God.
For Yours is the kingdom and the power
and the glory forever. Amen.
It all comes back to God. He gets all the glory, he is acknowledged as King, every knee bows and acknowledges him. Eternity belongs to him. The rebellion will only be a distant memory as we spend eternity in unbroken fellowship with him and with each other free from sickness, oppression and death on the new heavens and earth – no longer separated but joined as God always intended. He had to allow the rebellion so that he would have a people who he calls metaphorically “the bride of Christ”. Our eternal relationship with him is not a forced marriage but that of a bride who has been completely won over through unending patience, forgiveness, love and ultimate sacrifice.
So take this prayer with you as a power pack from Jesus. Meditate on it, pray it and let God speak back to you as you do. Pray it for yourself but remember it often uses the plural “us”. We are in this together as God’s people. Remember that it was our unwillingness to honour him as God that let the darkness in to the world and into our hearts in the first place. So daily make him Lord. Daily pray this prayer. The starting point to this new life is making a public confession of faith through Baptism – identifying with Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection and signifying you are in on that great gift of life. If you’ve never done that ask someone you know is a real Christian about it. There is a movement of faith being stirred up right now that is going to prepare the way for Jesus to return. It’s something worth living and dying for.